Draft: Why pickup artistry and communication…

I believe that techniques — for dating; and possibly also for communication, social interaction, and more — are misguided, unproductive, and often harmful. The problem I have with techniques is that they implicitly value outward behavior over inward state, however, we engage with others not on the level of words and behavior, but on the level of intentions— it’s not about what someone did, it’s about what they meant.

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