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Last year I wrote a post called "Almost everyone I know is lost about what they want (and is coping by adopting the goals of others)". This was obviously wrong: How could I know that? So I deleted most of the post when I realized that. Really, *I* felt like that…

Mar 1

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Today I want you to meet my pal Stripes! Stripes was a wild chipmunk that lived outside of my house in 2019 and 2020, and we were close friends! But…

Feb 26

Two months ago I noticed that the way I had been blogging wasn't working. So instead of whatever I had been doing before, I decided to start writing…

Feb 22

One man proposes and says "I want to marry you because you’re better than every other woman I've dated". Another man proposes and says "I want to marry…

Feb 17

A few months ago I started experimenting with stretching intuitively, and I've found it really enjoyable. In this post I want to give curious readers a…

Feb 6

I've written a few posts (1, 2) about "boundaries", but I realize now that using this term requires disambiguation between two concepts and also isn’t…

Feb 3

Humans, we drove you to this fate, / Our hunger for your meat, / You were the perfect food for us, / But now, we must admit defeat. …

Feb 1

Now that I understand boundaries a lot better, I've stopped disliking individuals in the same way I used to. For example, a while ago I met someone and…

Jan 27

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