Last year I wrote a post called "Almost everyone I know is lost about what they want (and is coping by adopting the goals of others)". This was obviously wrong: How could I know that? So I deleted most of the post when I realized that. Really, *I* felt like that…
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Today I want you to meet my pal Stripes! Stripes was a wild chipmunk that lived outside of my house in 2019 and 2020, and we were close friends! But…
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Two months ago I noticed that the way I had been blogging wasn't working. So instead of whatever I had been doing before, I decided to start writing…
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One man proposes and says "I want to marry you because you’re better than every other woman I've dated". Another man proposes and says "I want to marry…
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A few months ago I started experimenting with stretching intuitively, and I've found it really enjoyable. In this post I want to give curious readers a…
I've written a few posts (1, 2) about "boundaries", but I realize now that using this term requires disambiguation between two concepts and also isn’t…
Humans, we drove you to this fate, / Our hunger for your meat, / You were the perfect food for us, / But now, we must admit defeat. …
Now that I understand boundaries a lot better, I've stopped disliking individuals in the same way I used to. For example, a while ago I met someone and…
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